
Reach for this book when your teenager begins to grapple with complex questions about their origin, biological heritage, or the feeling of being an outsider within their own family. It is an essential resource for adopted children who are navigating the duality of their identities as they transition into adulthood. The story follows Milly Kaufman, a typical American teen whose life changes when a new student from her birth country prompts her to investigate her roots. It explores profound emotional themes of belonging, the tension between nature and nurture, and the courage required to face one's past. While it deals with heavy subjects like political unrest and the complexities of international adoption, the narrative remains grounded and deeply empathetic. Parents will find it a perfect bridge for discussing cultural identity and the meaning of family beyond biological ties.
Themes of abandonment and the emotional weight of searching for birth parents.
References to political 'disappearances' and past civil unrest in the birth country.
The book addresses adoption, abandonment, and political violence (disappearances) in a realistic, secular manner. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in reality, acknowledging that finding one's roots does not solve every problem but provides a necessary foundation for growth.
A 14-year-old girl who feels like she doesn't quite fit in her family or community, or any student interested in how history and personal identity intersect.
Parents should be aware of scenes discussing the 'disappeared' people of the civil war. It is helpful to provide some historical context regarding Latin American juntas and political unrest in the late 20th century. A parent might choose this after hearing their child say, 'You don't understand me because we aren't actually related,' or witnessing a child's sudden obsession with their DNA results or genealogy.
Younger teens will focus on the romance and the adventure of travel. Older teens will resonate more with the existential questions of identity and the morality of the choices made by the adults in Milly's life.
Unlike many adoption stories that focus on the 'rescue,' Alvarez focuses on the 'return' and the complex internal landscape of the adoptee without vilifying either the biological or adoptive parents. """
Milly Kaufman has always known she was adopted, but she has spent most of her life feeling like an outsider in her small Vermont town. When Pablo, a political refugee from her birth country, joins her class, Milly begins to explore her heritage in a new way. The story follows her journey back to her homeland to find her birth mother, navigating the cultural divide and the scars of a country recovering from civil unrest.
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