
Reach for this book when your child is grappling with the complexities of a large family or navigating the sudden, heavy reality of grief and loss. Through the eyes of eleven-year-old Cliff, the story captures a year in the life of the boisterous Abernathy family, moving from the chaotic joy of a crowded house to the sharp pain of losing a younger sibling in a tragic accident. It is a masterclass in how families lean on one another during the unthinkable. While the book addresses a sudden death, it balances the sorrow with genuine humor and the everyday friction of sibling life. It is highly appropriate for middle-grade readers who are beginning to understand that life can be both funny and desperately sad at the same time. Parents will appreciate how it validates the messiness of grief without being overly sentimental, ultimately offering a message of resilience and the healing power of shared family history.
A baby brother is hospitalized with a severe illness but recovers.
Depicts parental grief and a funeral in a very grounded, realistic way.
The death of seven-year-old Brad is handled directly and realistically. It is a secular treatment of grief, focusing on the sensory details of loss (the soccer shirt, the funeral) and the emotional vacuum it leaves behind. The resolution is realistic: the family isn't 'fixed,' but they are beginning to laugh again.
A 10-to-12-year-old who enjoys realistic fiction like Beverly Cleary or Andrew Clements but is ready for deeper emotional stakes. It is perfect for a child who has experienced a sudden loss or one who is the 'responsible' oldest sibling.
Read the chapter 'The Bad Thing' beforehand to prepare for questions about the accident. The book can be read cold, but be ready for a shift in tone from funny to somber. The scene where the mother is told her son could not be saved is emotionally piercing. Also, the irony of the boy being killed by an ambulance is a specific point of distress.
Younger readers (age 8-9) will focus on the slapstick humor and the 'yidda yadda' mystery. Older readers (11+) will resonate with Cliff's internal burden as the oldest child and the nuances of his parents' grief.
Ralph Fletcher is a master of the 'small moment.' This book stands out by using humor not to mask grief, but to show how life carries both simultaneously.
Narrated by twelve-year-old Cliff, the oldest of six, the novel is a series of episodic chapters covering one year. It highlights the chaotic dynamics of a large family, including a younger brother's scary illness and the eventual tragic death of another brother, Brad, who is hit by an ambulance while riding his bike. The story concludes with the family attempting to find a new 'normal' during the holidays, culminating in a humorous accident involving a shoe and a fig pudding.
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