
Reach for this book when your teenager is navigating the high stakes of digital identity, or when they are struggling to bridge the gap between who they are online and who they are at home. This story follows Jules, a Mexican American teen in Texas, whose accidental viral tweet outs him to the world before he is ready to tell his own family. It explores the beautiful, long distance connection he forms with Mat, a boy in California, while contrasting that joy with the very real dangers of parental rejection. While the romance is sweet and hopeful, the book handles heavy themes including physical and emotional abuse within a conservative household. It is an essential read for parents who want to understand the modern landscape of queer identity, the importance of 'found family,' and the courage required to live authentically when the world is watching. It is best suited for older teens due to its honest depiction of trauma and mature language.
Teens kissing and clear romantic tension, though not explicit.
Themes of parental rejection, homelessness risk, and emotional trauma.
Graphic depiction of a father physically assaulting his son due to his orientation.
Domestic violence and physical abuse (a character is struck by a parent), emotional abuse, homophobia, underage drinking, and a family crisis involving being kicked out of the home.
A high school student who feels they are living a double life between their online persona and their physical reality. It is especially resonant for those navigating conservative or traditional family structures where their safety is at odds with their family's expectations.
Parents should be prepared for the scene in which Julian's father reacts with physical violence after Julian comes out to him. This scene is visceral and may require a conversation about safety planning and the reality of domestic abuse. A child mentions they are afraid of a parent's reaction to their personal news, or a parent realizes their teen is finding more support from strangers online than from their own relatives.
Younger teens (14) will likely focus on the high stakes of social media and the sweetness of the digital romance. Older teens (17 to 18) will more deeply process the themes of impending adulthood, the necessity of independence, and the complexities of navigating cultural expectations while being true to oneself.
Unlike many stories that focus solely on the struggle, this book balances heavy trauma with a vibrant, joyful portrayal of the digital age and the power of a supportive friend group. It captures the specific intersection of Latinx culture and queer identity with deep nuance, exploring themes of family expectations and cultural acceptance. """
Julian Luna, a high school senior in Corpus Christi, accidentally outs himself on Twitter while drunk. This mistake accelerates his coming out timeline, leading to a long distance romance with Mat, a supportive and out boy in Los Angeles. While the digital connection provides a lifeline of joy and acceptance, Julian must navigate the increasingly dangerous environment of his home life and the threat of his father's disapproval.
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