
A parent would reach for this book when their middle schooler is navigating the complex intersection of self-esteem, body image, and the confusing pressures of a first crush. It is particularly helpful for a child who uses food as a coping mechanism for stress or social anxiety. The story follows Glenda, a thirteen-year-old who has worked hard to lose weight, only to find her old habits resurfacing when her summer job and a potential romance become more complicated than expected. This realistic novel dives deep into the emotional weight of self-perception. It explores how external validation, or the lack thereof, can impact a young person's relationship with their body. While the 1980s setting feels slightly dated, the core themes of jealousy and the desire to fit in remain timeless. It offers a grounded perspective on the fact that physical changes do not always solve internal insecurities, making it an excellent bridge for conversations about holistic health and self-acceptance.
Includes typical middle-school crushes and minor jealousy over a boy.
Deals with low self-esteem and the pain of social rejection.
The book deals directly with weight, dieting, and emotional eating. The approach is secular and very direct, reflecting the era's focus on weight as a primary social currency. The resolution is realistic rather than perfectly happy, as Glenda must come to terms with her choices and her self-worth.
A middle schooler who feels like they are constantly comparing their appearance to their peers or someone who feels that their 'true self' is hidden behind their physical insecurities.
Parents should be aware that the book uses the word 'Fat' in the title and text as a central descriptor, which was common in 80s literature but may require context regarding body neutrality today. A parent might see their child making self-deprecating comments about their body or noticing their child using snacks to hide from social stress.
Younger readers (11) will focus on the 'mean girl' dynamics and the crush, while older readers (14) will better grasp the psychological connection between Glenda's emotions and her eating habits.
Unlike many 'makeover' stories where the protagonist stays thin and finds happiness, this book is unique for showing the relapse into old habits, highlighting that emotional growth is not a straight line.
Glenda, now thirteen and having previously lost a significant amount of weight, enters the summer with high hopes. She lands a job as a mother's helper for a wealthy family and finds herself caught in a romantic triangle involving a boy named Justin and her thinner, more confident friend. As social pressures mount and her romantic aspirations falter, Glenda begins to turn back to food for comfort, leading to a realistic struggle with her self-image and weight.
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