
Reach for this book when your child is struggling with the shifting sands of middle school friendships or when they feel overwhelmed by a world that no longer seems to fit into neat, predictable boxes. This heartfelt story follows thirteen year old Ellen, an autistic girl who loves schedules and plans, as she embarks on a school trip to Barcelona. While she hopes the trip will fix her drifting relationship with her best friend, she instead encounters a series of unexpected challenges that force her to re-examine her rigid categories for gender, friendship, and herself. It is an excellent choice for neurodivergent children or any young reader navigating the complex transition from childhood to adolescence. The book gently explores Jewish identity, LGBTQ+ discovery, and the social nuances of autism. It offers a roadmap for learning how to embrace life's detours and find beauty in the unpredictable.
Depicts the painful process of growing apart from a childhood best friend.
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A neurodivergent middle schooler who feels like they are being "left behind" by peers, or a child who struggles with change and needs to see that flexibility does not mean losing one's identity.
This book can be read cold. It serves as a fantastic mirror for neurodivergent kids and a window for neurotypical parents to understand the internal processing of an autistic child. A child expressing that their best friend doesn't want to hang out with them anymore, or a child showing intense distress when plans are altered.
Younger readers (ages 8-10) will focus on the excitement of the Barcelona scavenger hunt and the relatable fear of losing a friend. Older readers (11-13) will connect with the complex social hierarchy of middle school.
Unlike many stories that portray autism as a burden to be managed, this book centers Ellen's neurodivergence as a neutral part of her identity while showing her actively learning to advocate for her own needs. It beautifully weaves together Jewish heritage, LGBTQ+ exploration, and neurodiversity without any of them feeling like a forced "lesson." """
Ellen is a thirteen-year-old autistic girl who finds comfort in schedules and clear categories. When she travels to Barcelona for a school trip, she hopes to repair her fading friendship with her best friend, Laurel. Instead, she is placed in a new social group and meets Isa, a nonbinary classmate who challenges Ellen's rigid binary worldview. Through a scavenger hunt across the city, Ellen must navigate social anxiety, sensory processing challenges, and the realization that people and friendships change.
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