
Reach for this book when your child is facing a major transition, particularly a move or a long-term goodbye to a loved one. Using a beloved toy as an emotional proxy, the story follows Ella as she travels from Holland to America. It beautifully captures the hesitation and 'not-wanting' that children often feel but cannot always articulate. This book is an essential tool for parents who want to validate their child's sadness and anxiety while gently steering them toward the hope of a new beginning. It is perfectly pitched for preschoolers and early elementary students, providing a safe space to discuss big life changes without the pressure of having to feel happy right away.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with the separation from a grandparent and the stress of immigration/relocation. The approach is secular and highly realistic, focusing on the sensory and emotional experience of the child. The resolution is hopeful but grounded: they haven't forgotten home, but they are beginning to build a new one.
A child between 4 and 7 who is moving house, starting a new school, or saying goodbye to a close relative. It is especially effective for the child who 'acts out' their feelings through play or by blaming their toys for their own bad moods.
Read cold. The storm scene is a good moment to pause and ask if the child has ever felt 'topsy-turvy' inside. A child who is being 'difficult' about a transition, refusing to pack, or saying they hate a new place before they have even seen it.
Toddlers will enjoy the ship and the monkey; older children will pick up on the subtext that Monkey says what Ella is too afraid to say.
The use of the stuffed animal as a vessel for the child's negative emotions is a brilliant psychological touch that allows children to externalize and process their own fear without feeling 'naughty.'
Ella and her stuffed animal, Monkey, are moving from Holland to New York to join Papa. The story tracks their departure from Oma, the long journey across the Atlantic on a large ship, and their arrival in a new city. Throughout the trip, Monkey (acting as Ella's emotional avatar) expresses dislike for everything from the food to the new people, mirroring Ella's own internal struggle with the move.
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