
Reach for this book when your child is struggling with the blurry line between being part of the in-crowd and staying true to their values. It is a vital resource for middle grade readers who feel invisible or who might be tempted to participate in unkindness just to feel seen by a popular peer. Shaindy Goodman is a quiet, observant girl in an Orthodox Jewish community who gets swept up in a series of nighttime pranks led by the charismatic and manipulative Gayil. As the pranks move from harmless to hurtful, Shaindy must confront her own complicity and the crushing weight of guilt. The story masterfully explores the psychology of peer pressure and the courage required to make amends. It is deeply grounded in its cultural setting but offers universal lessons on accountability and the search for authentic belonging.
Explores deep feelings of loneliness, invisibility, and the pain of being a social outcast.
Emotional manipulation, bullying, and intense social exclusion.
A 10 to 12 year old who feels like they are on the periphery of their social group and might be vulnerable to the allure of a "toxic" friendship. This is for the child who is struggling to navigate the difference between being liked and being respected.
This book can be read cold, but parents may want to preview the scenes toward the end where Shaindy must face the classmates she harmed. These scenes are emotionally raw and serve as excellent jumping-off points for discussions about restorative justice. A child comes home and mentions they were a bystander to a mean joke, or perhaps they have started acting out of character to impress a new, more dominant friend.
Younger readers (ages 8-9) will focus on the mystery of the pranks and the fear of getting caught. Older readers (ages 11-12) will better grasp the nuance of Gayil’s manipulation and the complex internal shame Shaindy feels as she realizes she has become a bully herself.
Unlike many middle grade novels that portray bullying as a black-and-white issue, this book occupies the uncomfortable gray area of complicity. It is a rare, honest look at how a "good kid" can be led astray by the simple, powerful desire to be seen.
Shaindy is a socially isolated girl in an Orthodox Jewish school who is stunned when the most popular girl in her grade, Gayil, invites her to help pull off a series of late-night pranks. As they sneak out to plant clues and set traps for their classmates, Shaindy initially feels the thrill of belonging. However, she soon realizes that Gayil’s motives are far more malicious than they appeared, and Shaindy must decide whether to continue the charade or risk her newfound status to do what is right.
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