
Reach for this book when your child starts to cling, cry, or protest the moment they see you putting on your coat or hear the word babysitter. It is a perfect tool for navigating the intense separation anxiety that often peaks in the preschool years. The story follows Augusta, a young girl who tries every tactic in the book to keep her parents from leaving, including a dramatic plan to run away to Alaska. Through Augusta's journey, the book validates a child's right to feel angry or sad when parents go out while gently showing that those feelings can coexist with having fun. It helps children visualize the cycle of leaving and returning, which builds the internal security they need to let go. By the end, Augusta discovers that while she misses her parents, her babysitter is actually a lot of fun, making this an excellent choice for normalizing the transition to childcare.
The book deals with separation anxiety in a secular, realistic, and hopeful manner. The resolution is grounded in the reality of a child's life: the parents come back as promised, and the child is safe.
A 3 to 5-year-old who is currently experiencing 'the clingy phase.' It is specifically for the child who feels like their world is ending when the front door closes, but who is usually fine ten minutes later.
No specific previewing is required. The book can be read cold. It is helpful for parents to note how the parents in the book stay calm but firm, which models good behavior for the adults too. The trigger is the 'departure meltdown.' A parent who has just experienced their child screaming at their heels or hiding their shoes to prevent a night out will find this deeply relatable.
For a 3-year-old, the focus is on the literal return of the parents (permanence). For a 6-year-old, the humor in Augusta's dramatic 'Alaska' plan and her internal negotiation is what resonates most.
Unlike many separation books that focus on school, this focuses on the 'night out.' It is uniquely honest about a child's anger, allowing Augusta to be grumpy rather than just sad, which feels more authentic to many families.
Augusta is distraught because her parents are going out for the evening. She cycles through a range of emotions: anger, bargaining (proposing a trip to Alaska), and sadness. Once the parents leave, Augusta and her babysitter, Sarah, engage in creative play, snacks, and a bedtime routine. When the parents return, Augusta is asleep, having successfully navigated her evening away from them.
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