
Reach for this book when your child is beginning to question the 'fixed' nature of the world around them or when your family is navigating a period of significant change and revelation. It is an ideal choice for the middle-schooler who feels like they are the only ones growing while the adults in their lives remain static. The story follows Annabelle, a sixth-grader who discovers her father is trans, a secret that has been kept from her for her entire life. Through this discovery, the book explores themes of honesty, the layered nature of identity, and the realization that parents are whole people with their own complex histories. It is a tender, sophisticated tool for opening conversations about gender, family secrets, and the courage it takes to be your authentic self within a community.
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A 10 to 12 year old who is beginning to realize that their parents are independent people with lives and histories of their own. It is perfect for a child who feels like an outsider in their town or for a young reader looking for a nuanced exploration of gender identity that involves both peers and adults.
This book can be read cold. Parents may want to be prepared to discuss the concept of privacy versus secrecy, as Annabelle initially feels lied to by her parents regarding her father's transition history. This book is for the parent whose child has just asked a pointed question about why adults keep secrets, or a child who has recently expressed that they feel their family doesn't truly 'see' them.
A 10-year-old will likely focus on the school dynamics and the 'detective' aspect of Annabelle uncovering her family history. A 14-year-old will more deeply internalize the themes of systemic erasure and the historical context of LGBTQ+ activism mentioned in the book.
Unlike many middle-grade books where the child is the only one transitioning or questioning, this story highlights an intergenerational LGBTQ+ experience. It beautifully illustrates that identity is not just a 'phase' for kids, but a lifelong journey that adults navigate too.
Annabelle is a sixth grader living in a small town who feels her life is predictable until she meets Bailey, a new nonbinary student. As Annabelle begins to explore her own identity and crushes, she discovers a major family secret: her father is a transgender man. The story follows her journey of reconciling the father she thought she knew with the person he actually is, while navigating her own first steps into the LGBTQ+ community.
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