
A parent might reach for this book when their child is navigating the complex intersection of grief and identity, especially if they are struggling to find people who truly see them. It is a deeply empathetic choice for a middle schooler who feels like an outsider or is mourning the loss of a close friend. The story follows Noah, a young trans boy, who processes the death of his best friend Lewis by writing letters to the Mothman, a cryptid Lewis loved. Through these letters, Noah explores his own gender identity and the feeling of being different in a world that demands clear evidence and normalcy. Written in lyrical verse, the book handles heavy themes of loss and trans identity with a gentle, introspective touch. While it deals with the pain of not being understood by adults, it ultimately offers a hopeful path toward finding a new community. It is a powerful tool for opening conversations about how we honor those we have lost while continuing to grow into our own authentic selves. Parents will appreciate the way it validates a child's inner world and their right to mystery and wonder.
The story centers on the aftermath of a best friend's death in a car accident.
Noah ventures into the woods alone at night, facing nature and his own fears.
Deep explorations of grief, loneliness, and the struggle for identity acceptance.
The book centers on the death of a child in a car accident. While the accident happens before the book begins, the emotional aftermath of grief is profound. There are also depictions of social isolation and the emotional strain caused by adults who do not fully validate a child's identity.
A middle grade reader who feels like a "monster" or an outsider because they don't fit into traditional social boxes. It is perfect for a child who uses fantasy, urban legends, or writing as a way to cope with real world pain.
This book can be read cold, but parents should be ready to discuss how grief can manifest as an obsession with a hobby or a fictional world. Noah's journey into the woods near the end is a moment of tension that may require discussion about safety versus emotional exploration. A parent might notice their child withdrawing after a loss, or perhaps their child has expressed that they feel like nobody truly "sees" them, even if the parent is trying to be supportive.
A 10 year old will likely focus on the mystery of Mothman and the fear of losing a friend. A 14 year old will more deeply resonate with the nuances of gender identity and the specific frustration of being a trans youth in a cisnormative world.
This is a rare verse novel that uses the "cryptid" as a metaphor for the trans experience, framing the search for a monster as a search for a space where being different is not just accepted, but expected.
Noah, a young trans boy, is grieving the death of his best friend Lewis, who was the only other trans person he knew. To process his grief and stay connected to Lewis, Noah begins writing letters to Mothman, the cryptid Lewis was obsessed with. As Noah navigates the isolation of middle school and his parents' struggle to fully understand his identity, he embarks on a science fair project to prove Mothman is real. This leads him on a journey of self discovery, new friendships, and a literal trek into the woods to find a sense of belonging.
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