
Reach for this book if your teenager is navigating the complex transition to college and wrestling with their role in social justice movements. It is an essential choice for young people who feel the weight of 'being a good ally' but fear making mistakes or appearing performative. The story follows Jared, a white college student running for class president on an antiracism platform, as he is challenged to move beyond rhetoric into meaningful action. The narrative explores themes of privilege, accountability, and the bittersweet process of healing from grief. Through letters to his late friend Manny, Jared processes his feelings for his political rival, Dylan, and the messy reality of living out his values. It is a sophisticated, realistic look at the intersection of politics and first love, making it perfect for high schoolers and new college students who are forming their own adult identities.
Flirting and romantic tension between political rivals.
Protagonist writes letters to a deceased friend; themes of grief and loss.
The book deals directly with the aftermath of police violence and the lingering effects of grief. It addresses systemic racism and white privilege through a secular, academic lens. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on personal growth rather than a 'perfect' political victory.
A high school senior or college freshman who identifies as an ally but feels 'imposter syndrome' in activist spaces. This reader likely values introspection and is currently navigating the 'political awakening' phase of young adulthood.
Parents should be aware of the series' history involving police shootings. While this book is less violent than Dear Martin, the emotional scars are present. The book can be read cold, but knowing the events of the previous books provides essential context for Jared's grief. A parent might see their child withdrawing from a friend group or feeling intense guilt about their own socioeconomic or racial advantages. They might hear their child say, 'I want to help, but I don't know if it's my place to speak.'
Younger teens (14-15) will focus on the romantic 'enemies-to-lovers' tension and the high-stakes election. Older teens (17-18) will better grasp the nuances of performative activism and the critique of institutional power structures.
Unlike many YA novels that focus on the victims of injustice, this book uniquely focuses on the internal work a white protagonist must do to be a genuine ally without centering himself in the narrative.
Jared Christensen, a character introduced in the Dear Martin series, is now a college junior running for class president. His platform focuses on equity and inclusion, but his world is shaken when a transfer student named Dylan enters the race. Dylan challenges Jared's privilege and the sincerity of his activism. To cope with the pressure and his burgeoning romantic feelings for Dylan, Jared writes letters to Manny, his best friend who was killed by police in the first book of the series.
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