
Reach for this book when your preteen is navigating the bittersweet intersection of growing up: experiencing the dizzying high of a first serious crush while simultaneously facing the grief of a close friend moving away. It provides a gentle, relatable space for children to process the reality that life continues to move forward, often bringing both excitement and sadness at the exact same time. Stacey McGill deals with a massive crush on a student teacher, an experience that brings up feelings of embarrassment and longing, while her best friend Dawn prepares to move across the country. It is perfectly pitched for the 8 to 12 age range, offering a safe look at the complexities of blended families, changing friendships, and the awkwardness of early romantic feelings. Parents will appreciate how it validates these big emotions without being overly dramatic.
Themes of saying goodbye and missing a friend who is moving away.
The book handles divorce and blended family dynamics in a secular, realistic manner. Dawn's move is a result of longing for her father and brother, which is presented as a valid but difficult choice for everyone involved. The resolution is realistic and bittersweet.
A 10-year-old girl who feels like her social world is shifting. It is perfect for the child who is starting to notice older boys or teachers and feels embarrassed by their own intensity, or for a child whose best friend is moving away.
Read cold. The book is very accessible. Parents might want to be prepared to discuss healthy boundaries and appropriate relationships with adults, especially if their child expresses feelings for a teacher. A parent might see their child becoming uncharacteristically self-conscious or obsessive about a specific person, or they may notice their child withdrawing as a friend prepares to move.
Younger readers (8-9) will focus on the sadness of the move and the 'cooties' or silliness of the crush. Older readers (11-12) will deeply emphasize with Stacey's internal romantic longing and the complexity of Dawn's choice between parents.
Unlike many 'moving' books that focus only on the person leaving, this highlights the emotional vacuum left behind for the friends staying in the hometown. """
Stacey McGill develops a significant crush on Mr. Zizick, a student teacher at her school. While she navigates the awkwardness of trying to impress him and the eventual realization that the crush cannot be reciprocated, she is also dealing with the emotional fallout of Dawn Schafer's decision to move back to California for six months. The narrative balances these two threads: the internal excitement of a crush and the external loss of a core friend group member.
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