
Reach for this book when your preteen is beginning to navigate the complicated world of first dates, long-distance friendships, and the pressure to change who they are to impress others. This story follows Dawn Schafer as she balances her identity between two coasts, dealing with the excitement and anxiety of a double date while questioning if her feelings for a boy back home are getting in the way. It is a relatable exploration of self-confidence and the realization that being yourself is more important than fitting a certain image. Parents will appreciate how the book normalizes the awkwardness of early adolescence. It addresses the common 'grass is greener' mentality children often face after a move or a family change. The story is gentle, age-appropriate for the 8 to 12 range, and provides a safe space to discuss honesty in relationships and the importance of staying true to one's own values.
Themes of missing family members due to living across the country.
The book deals with the aftermath of divorce and living in a blended/split family (Dawn lives with her dad in CA while her brother and mom are in CT). The approach is secular and highly realistic, focusing on the logistical and emotional toll of long-distance family dynamics.
A middle-schooler who feels like they have to wear a 'mask' to be liked by their peers or a romantic interest. It is perfect for the child who is currently navigating a long-distance move and feels split between two worlds.
No specific scenes require heavy vetting, but parents should be ready to discuss the concept of 'long-distance relationships' and why Dawn feels she needs to change her look. A parent might notice their child suddenly criticizing their own appearance or interests in an attempt to mirror a new friend group or a crush.
Younger readers (8-9) will focus on the 'grown-up' excitement of the date and the fashion. Older readers (11-12) will better grasp the internal conflict of identity and the nuance of having feelings for two people at once.
Unlike many 'first date' books that focus on the romance, this one focuses on the internal struggle of identity and the realization that the 'perfect' date isn't worth losing your sense of self.
Dawn Schafer, living in California, is set up on a double date with Logan's cousin, Lewis. Amidst the excitement, she feels pressured to change her appearance and personality to be 'Californian' enough for him. Simultaneously, she is grappling with lingering feelings for her old crush in Stoneybrook, leading to a conflict of loyalty and self-identity.
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