
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is struggling to juggle the heavy expectations of being a perfect child, a loyal friend, and a supportive partner while managing their own mental health. It is a nuanced sequel that explores Darius Kellner's life back in Portland after his transformative trip to Iran. The story delves into the pressures of a first romantic relationship, the stress of high school sports, and the emotional toll of a family crisis. Parents will appreciate the honest, non-stigmatized portrayal of clinical depression and the realistic depiction of how teens navigate the messy intersection of cultural identity and modern American life. It is an excellent choice for opening a dialogue about emotional boundaries and the importance of self-care during times of change.
Depiction of clinical depression and family financial stress.
Clinical depression and its management (medication and therapy), financial instability and job loss within the family, and the declining health of a grandparent.
A high schooler who feels they have to be the perfect child or partner at the expense of their own mental health. This is for the teen who is high-achieving but quietly struggling with the feeling that they are never quite enough for anyone in their life.
This book can be read cold. Parents should be prepared for frank discussions about depression and the reality that a romantic relationship does not cure mental health struggles. The nuanced portrayal of a family in a financial pinch is also worth noting for context. A parent hears their child say, "I feel like I'm failing everyone even when I'm doing everything right," or notices their teen is withdrawing despite having a seemingly successful social and academic life.
Younger teens (13-14) will focus on the social dynamics of the soccer team and the thrill/anxiety of a first boyfriend. Older teens (17-18) will likely resonate more with the complex family dynamics, the stress of impending adulthood, and the burden of managing chronic mental illness.
Unlike many YA novels where the romantic interest is the solution to the protagonist's problems, this book subverts that trope. It focuses on the internal work of self-acceptance and the realization that a relationship is just one part of a complex, sometimes messy identity.
Darius Kellner is back in Portland, navigating his first boyfriend, his spot on the varsity soccer team, and his internship at a tea shop. While his life seems objectively better, he is struggling with the weight of expectations. His grandmothers have moved in, creating a cramped and stressful household. His father's job loss creates a family financial crisis, and Darius must grapple with his clinical depression while navigating the confusing boundaries of a long-distance friendship and a local romance.
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