
Reach for this book when your middle schooler is starting to feel the heavy weight of social expectations and the fluttery, often confusing, first signs of a romantic crush. This story follows Jorge, a gentle giant who values his close-knit group of friends but finds his world tilted when he realizes he has feelings for a girl named Jasmine. It perfectly captures the moment when childhood play turns into adolescent posturing and the pressure to 'act cool' begins to strain long-term friendships. Through its vibrant graphic novel format, the book explores themes of loyalty, self-confidence, and the bravery required to be your authentic self even when peers are acting differently. It is highly appropriate for ages 10 to 14, offering a healthy and realistic model of how to navigate social dynamics without losing one's integrity. Parents will appreciate the way it validates a boy's emotional complexity and reinforces that kindness is a strength, not a weakness.
Depicts first crushes, blushing, and awkward middle school flirting.
The book deals with peer pressure and toxic masculinity in a direct, secular, and realistic manner. The book depicts instances of social exclusion and peer pressure, including characters attempting to manipulate Jorge into participating in activities that make him uncomfortable. The resolution is hopeful and grounded, showing that healthy relationships are built on mutual respect rather than social status.
A middle schooler who feels like they have to play a 'role' (the athlete, the tough guy, the quiet one) and is struggling with the transition from group play to individual romantic interests.
This book can be read cold. Parents might want to pay attention to the character of Garrett to use him as a springboard for talking about what makes a good friend versus a manipulative one. A parent might notice their child becoming unusually quiet, seemingly embarrassed by their long-term friends, or expressing anxiety about 'fitting in' or being seen as 'uncool' for being kind.
Younger readers (ages 9-10) will focus on the humor and the 'ew, crushes' element. Older readers (12-14) will deeply resonate with the social anxiety, the nuance of the dialogue, and the pressure to conform to gendered expectations.
Chmakova excels at depicting the 'middle school ecosystem' with incredible accuracy. Unlike many books that focus on the girl's perspective of a crush, this provides a rare, sensitive, and healthy look at a boy's emotional experience without making him a caricature. """
Jorge is a large, athletic middle schooler known for being the 'protector' of his friend group. When he develops a crush on Jasmine, his world becomes complicated by the antics of his friends, particularly Garrett, whose increasingly toxic behavior and obsession with 'ranking' girls creates social friction. Jorge must decide whether to follow the crowd or stand up for his own values and feelings.
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