
Reach for this book when your child has developed a big ego or is using a new skill to put others down rather than lift them up. Crick-Ette follows a talented cricket whose pride in her own music leads her to alienate her friends through constant boasting. It provides a gentle but firm look at how arrogance can lead to loneliness, and more importantly, how an apology can pave the way back to the community. Perfect for children ages 4 to 8, this Serendipity book uses animal fantasy to teach that true talent shines brightest when paired with humility and kindness. It is an ideal choice for parents navigating the 'show off' phase of early elementary school.
The book deals with social isolation and the shame of being wrong. The approach is metaphorical, using an animal protagonist to distance the child from the immediate sting of the lesson. It is secular and the resolution is hopeful and restorative.
An elementary schooler who has recently excelled in a hobby (like sports or music) and has begun teasing others who aren't as skilled. It's for the child who needs to see that 'being the best' is lonely if you aren't a good friend.
This book can be read cold. Parents may want to pay attention to the specific wording of Crick-Ette's apology at the end to highlight it for the child. The parent likely just witnessed their child brag about a grade or a win in a way that hurt a sibling or friend's feelings, or perhaps heard from a teacher that the child is being 'bossy' on the playground.
A 4-year-old will enjoy the bug characters and the 'mean vs. nice' distinction. A 7 or 8-year-old will better grasp the social consequences of ego and the difficulty of admitting one was wrong.
Unlike many books on manners, this one focuses specifically on the intersection of talent and ego, showing that having a gift doesn't give one a right to be unkind.
Crick-Ette is a talented cricket who believes her chirping is superior to everyone else's. Her vanity and constant bragging eventually drive away her insect friends. Feeling isolated and realizing her mistakes, she must find the courage to apologize and learn that her gift is meant to be shared for the joy of others, not for personal glory.
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