
A parent should reach for this book when their child is beginning to question the 'why' behind family traditions or feels like they are performing a religious identity that does not yet feel authentic. It is an ideal resource for families navigating the spiritual curiosity of a pre-teen who is looking for a personal connection to faith beyond just attending services or following rules. The story follows Justine, an eleven year old girl who decides to 'give up' being Jewish for Lent to see if Catholicism offers more comfort, especially as she faces the frightening reality of her beloved grandmother's illness. This book explores the heavy themes of guilt, grief, and identity with a light, humorous touch that makes it highly accessible for middle-grade readers aged 9 to 13. It normalizes the 'identity crisis' many children face when they realize their family's culture is just one of many ways to see the world.
Depicts a beloved grandparent suffering a stroke and the subsequent hospital scenes.
The book deals directly with the health crisis of a grandparent. The resolution is hopeful, focusing on the internal peace Justine finds rather than a specific conversion or return to strict dogma.
A 10 to 12 year old child who is interested in exploring different religious traditions or who is currently processing the illness of a grandparent. Specifically, a child who is prone to 'perfectionist' guilt or who is currently processing the illness of a grandparent.
Parents should be prepared to have open conversations about different religious traditions, including concepts like 'Lent' and 'Confession'. There is a scene involving a stroke that might be distressing for very sensitive children. A parent might hear their child say, 'Why do we have to do things this way?' or 'I don't think I believe what you believe.' It is also relevant if a child is expressing irrational guilt over a relative's health issues.
Younger readers (9-10) will focus on the humor of the secret closet and the friendship dynamics. Older readers (12-13) will resonate more with the internal struggle of identity and the nuanced conversations about mortality and faith.
This book is unique because it treats a child's religious questioning with dignity rather than as a phase to be corrected. It brilliantly captures the specific intersections of Jewish culture and the allure of ritual in other faiths. ```
Justine Silver feels like a 'closet Catholic' in her very Jewish household. Inspired by her best friend, she starts confessing her 'sins' to her teddy bear in a closet confessional. However, her experiment takes a serious turn when her Bubbe (grandmother) suffers a stroke. Justine is consumed by the 'magical thinking' common in children: believing her religious experimentation caused her grandmother's health crisis. The story follows her journey through guilt and grief toward a more mature understanding of faith.
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