
A parent would reach for this book when their child is expressing resistance or deep resentment toward the idea of a parent dating again after a divorce. It speaks directly to the friction that occurs when children feel their family structure is being permanently altered by 'outsiders' or 'weirdos.' The story follows young Jenny as she navigates her mother's new relationship, her own first experiences with boys, and her sister Chloris's intense anger and sabotage. It is a realistic, vintage portrayal of middle school life that explores themes of loyalty, personal space, and the complex process of accepting change. Parents may choose it to validate a teen's feelings of being unheard while opening a door to talk about the future of their own family unit.
The book deals directly with divorce, parental dating, and the lingering resentment children feel toward a 'replacement' parent figure. The approach is secular and highly realistic. The resolution is not a tidy 'happily ever after' where everyone loves the new stepfather; instead, it is a realistic compromise about coexistence and individual growth.
A 12 to 14 year old who feels stuck in the middle of family conflict and is struggling to balance their own burgeoning social life with the heavy emotional demands of their home life.
This is a 1970s text, so parents should be aware of vintage social attitudes. It can be read cold, but it is best used as a launching point for a discussion about family boundaries. A parent might see their child acting out or becoming 'prickly' whenever a new person is introduced into the family dynamic, or notice a sibling pair where one is significantly more adjusted than the other.
Younger readers will identify with the frustration of having no control over adult decisions. Older readers will resonate more with Jenny's attempts to form her own identity separate from her family's drama.
Unlike many modern 'blended family' books that push for immediate harmony, this story honors the child's right to find the situation weird, annoying, or even unacceptable.
Jenny is a teenager living in a single-parent household where her older sister, Chloris, remains fiercely protective of their absent father's memory. When their mother begins dating a man named Fidel, Chloris goes on the warpath to sabotage the relationship. Meanwhile, Jenny is trying to find her own path, dealing with her first real interest in a boy and a passion for cycling, all while acting as the emotional buffer between her mother's desire for a new life and her sister's refusal to move on.
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