
Reach for this book when your older child is struggling to share your attention or expressing frustration toward a new baby. It is a perfect tool for when the initial excitement of a new sibling has worn off and been replaced by the reality of interrupted play and busy parents. Ruby, the protagonist, finds herself bored and overlooked while her mother is preoccupied with the baby, leading her to imagine creative ways to send her brother away on wild adventures. While the title sounds slightly provocative, the story is a heartwarming exploration of the power of play to bridge the gap between resentment and inclusion. It validates a child's very real feelings of jealousy and loneliness without judgment. Ideal for preschoolers and early elementary students, this book offers a safe space to discuss the complicated mix of love and annoyance that defines the sibling bond, ultimately showing that having a companion can be even more fun than being alone.
The book deals with sibling rivalry and temporary feelings of displacement. The approach is metaphorical and secular, using humor and fantasy to process negative emotions. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on the shift from resentment to inclusion.
A 4-year-old child who has recently become a big sibling and is acting out or saying 'send the baby back' because they miss their one-on-one time with a parent.
Read cold. The imagery of 'sending the baby away' is clearly framed as imaginative play, but parents should be ready to talk about how it's okay to feel mad at the baby sometimes. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child say 'I wish the baby wasn't here' or witnessing the child intentionally disrupting the baby's nap or feeding time out of a desire for attention.
Younger children (3-4) will enjoy the silly, high-stakes imagery of the baby in space. Older children (6-7) will better appreciate the subtext of Ruby's emotional transition from loneliness to creative leadership.
Unlike many 'new baby' books that focus on being a 'big helper,' this book honors the child's right to be annoyed and uses imaginative play as the specific mechanism for emotional healing.
Ruby is frustrated because her mother is constantly busy with her new baby brother. Feeling ignored and bored with her usual toys, Ruby uses her imagination to send her brother on various escapades, including launching him into space and sending him to the circus. However, as her fantasies become more elaborate, she realizes that the adventures are more exciting when she joins him, eventually leading to a playful reconciliation where she accepts him as a companion.
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