
Reach for this book when your child is struggling with the difficult realization that loving something sometimes means letting it go. It is a perfect choice for navigating the transition of moving a pet to a more suitable home or understanding why wild animals cannot be kept as playmates. William Joyce tells the true story of Gertrude Lintz, an eccentric woman who raised a gorilla named Buddy in her 1930s New York home. While the story begins with whimsy and humor, it gently shifts toward the reality of Buddy's size and instinctual needs. This beautifully illustrated chapter book helps children aged 6 to 9 process complex emotions like empathy and the bittersweet nature of saying goodbye. It validates the deep bond between humans and animals while emphasizing that true love respects the natural needs of another living being.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book handles the themes of animal captivity and the removal of a pet from a home realistically. The tone is secular and the resolution is bittersweet but hopeful, focusing on Buddy's well-being over Gertrude's personal desires.
An 8-year-old animal lover who is starting to move beyond simple 'pet' stories and is ready to discuss the ethics of how we treat animals and the complexity of doing what is right even when it hurts.
Read the epilogue together. It provides historical context about the real Gertrude Lintz and Buddy (who became the famous Gargantua the Great), which helps ground the story in reality. A parent might see their child struggling to understand why they can't keep a captured wild animal (like a turtle or frog found in the yard) or why a beloved pet must be rehomed for safety or space.
Younger children will focus on the humor of a gorilla in a tuxedo. Older children will pick up on the tension of Buddy's confinement and the ethical weight of Gertrude's choice.
Unlike many animal stories that anthropomorphize creatures to the end, this book uses human-like scenarios to highlight why the animal actually belongs in nature.
Set in the 1930s, the story follows Gertrude Lintz, who brings a baby gorilla into her home. She treats Buddy like a human child, dressing him in suits and teaching him to eat at the table. As Buddy matures, his strength and wild nature create challenges that Gertrude can no longer ignore, leading to the difficult decision to move him to a zoo setting where he can be with his own kind.
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