About This Book
Reach for this book when your child's competitive drive is starting to overshadow their kindness or when 'winning at all costs' is causing friction with teammates and friends. It is a perfect fit for the middle-schooler who is deeply passionate about a hobby but struggles to manage their intensity and frustration when things do not go their way. LJ is a seventh-grade soccer star whose identity is tied to being the best, but her aggressive behavior on and off the field is alienating those she cares about. Through an unexpected friendship with Tabitha, LJ begins to see herself through others' eyes. This realistic school story helps children ages 8 to 12 navigate the delicate balance between personal ambition and empathy, modeling how to take accountability for one's actions and rebuild damaged trust.
What Parents Should Know
Sensitive Topics
The book deals with social exclusion and verbal aggression. The approach is direct and secular, focusing on personal growth and interpersonal consequences. The resolution is realistic: LJ doesn't change overnight, but she makes meaningful progress toward empathy.
