
Reach for this book when your teenager is feeling disconnected from their extended family or struggling to articulate the pressure of living up to different versions of masculinity. It is a powerful choice for families navigating the aftermath of loss or for teens who feel like the odd one out in their social circles. Through the lens of three Latino cousins on a road trip, the story explores how shared heritage can look different for everyone. It tackles heavy themes of grief, coming out, and religious expectations with a grounded, realistic touch. Parents will appreciate how it models the difficult but rewarding process of young men learning to communicate their vulnerabilities. It is best suited for older teens due to its mature exploration of identity and complex family dynamics.
Discussions of crushes and identity, including coming out.
Exploration of grief following the death of a parent.
The book handles grief in a direct, secular, and deeply empathetic manner. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on progress rather than perfect solutions.
A 16-year-old boy who feels like he has to wear a mask around his family or who is struggling to find a common language with cousins he only sees on holidays.
Parents should be aware of honest discussions regarding coming out, navigating religious beliefs and sexual identity, and dealing with potential family conflict. Reading the sections where the boys finally share their secrets can help facilitate real-world conversations about trust. A parent might notice their teen becoming withdrawn during family gatherings or expressing frustration that nobody truly knows who they are.
Older teens will resonate with the specific pressures of impending adulthood and identity formation. Younger teens may focus more on the adventure and the dynamics of the road trip itself.
Unlike many road trip novels, this one centers on three Latino cousins and explores their individual journeys of self-discovery and what it means to be a man.
Three estranged cousins, Matt, Ethan, and Oscar, are forced into a road trip from Portland to Albuquerque in a 1974 Toyota Land Cruiser (the Beast) to attend their grandmother's birthday party. Each boy carries a secret: one is grieving his mother, one is navigating his sexuality within a religious household, and one is trying to find his place in a world that subjects him to racial stereotypes.
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