
Reach for this book when your child notices a parent or loved one struggling with their mental health, particularly if they are acting distant or irritable after a long absence. This story addresses the confusion a child feels when a parent returns from military service with PTSD, gently explaining that the parent's struggle is not the child's fault. Through the journey of Butta Bean and his Daddy, the book highlights how physical movement and shared family activities can foster emotional healing. While the underlying theme of trauma is serious, the tone remains hopeful and grounded in reality. Parents will appreciate the focus on the restorative power of yoga and mindfulness as a secular tool for recovery. It provides a beautiful roadmap for families navigating the 'new normal' of life after deployment, emphasizing that while things may be different, the bond of love remains unbreakable.
The book deals directly with PTSD and mental health struggles in a secular, realistic manner. It acknowledges the father's changed behavior without minimizing the impact on the child. The resolution is hopeful but realistic: the father isn't 'cured' instantly, but he is getting better through therapy and family connection.
An early elementary student in a military family who is experiencing a parent's reintegration. It is also perfect for any child seeing a parent struggle with depression or irritability and who needs reassurance that they are not the cause.
Read this book cold with your child. The illustrations by Noa Denmon are warm and inviting, helping to soften the heavy subject matter. Parents should be prepared to discuss that healing from trauma and mental health challenges takes time and often involves professional help, like therapy. A parent might see their child withdrawing or expressing guilt, saying things like 'Daddy doesn't want to play with me anymore' or 'Is Mommy mad at me?'
Younger children (4-5) will focus on the cool yoga poses and the 'Boyogi' name. Older children (7-8) will more deeply grasp the metaphor of the 'hurt mind' and the emotional weight of the father's military service.
Unlike many 'military homecoming' books that end at the reunion, this one starts after the return, tackling the often-unspoken difficulties of reintegration and the specific utility of mindfulness/yoga in trauma recovery. """
After his father returns from military service, young Butta Bean notices his dad is withdrawn and easily frustrated. His mother explains that Daddy's mind is 'hurt' from his time away. To help him heal, the family begins attending yoga classes at the YMCA. Initially skeptical, Butta Bean and his father eventually bond over the poses, leading to a visible improvement in his father's mood and their relationship.
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