
Reach for this book when your child expresses embarrassment or resentment about being around people who are different, or when they are struggling with their own self-image in social situations. It is a raw and honest look at a young girl named Shelley who is frustrated by her mother's job at a care facility and her own forced interaction with Ben, a boy with an intellectual disability who is terrified of the water. This story explores complex feelings of shame, the pressure to fit in, and the slow journey toward empathy. It is an excellent choice for opening a dialogue about neurodiversity and the internal struggle between one's ego and one's kindness. Written for the 9 to 12 age range, it handles difficult emotions with realism rather than easy sentimentality, making it a powerful tool for building emotional intelligence.
The book contains a slur for people with intellectual disabilities ('retard') used to reflect the protagonist's initial prejudice. This may be upsetting to some readers. The approach is direct and secular. The resolution is realistic: it doesn't suggest all problems are solved, but it shows significant personal growth and a hopeful shift in perspective.
A middle-schooler who is socially self-conscious and might be reacting to others with 'cringe' or avoidance. It is perfect for a child who needs to see that kindness is more important than being 'cool.'
Parents should definitely preview the first few chapters to prepare for the offensive language used by the protagonist. This requires context: explain that Shelley's internal voice represents the 'ugly' thoughts people often hide, which the book eventually deconstructs. A parent might choose this after hearing their child use a slur or express embarrassment about a peer with a disability.
Younger readers will focus on the 'learning to swim' aspect and the physical comedy/tension, while older readers will better grasp the nuance of Shelley's internal shame and social hierarchy.
Unlike many books that feature characters with disabilities, this book focuses intensely on the 'helper's' flawed character, making it a mirror for the reader's own potential prejudices. ```
Shelley is a young girl resentful of her mother's new job at a residential facility for people with disabilities. Forced to spend her holidays there, she encounters Ben, a boy with an intellectual disability who is paralyzed by a fear of the pool. While Shelley initially treats the situation with disdain and embarrassment, she gradually takes on the challenge of teaching Ben to swim, leading to a profound shift in her self-awareness.
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