
Reach for this book when your child is navigating the messy, painful aftermath of a falling-out with their best friend, especially if a big event is looming. It perfectly captures the stomach-flipping anxiety of seeing everyone else have fun while you feel stuck in a 'grump.' The story follows Lola, who is furious with her friends Cindy and Nikki right as the annual block party begins. As the neighborhood fills with music, food, and games, Lola must decide if her pride is worth missing out on the joy of community. This is a gentle, realistic look at how pride and loneliness can coexist. It is highly appropriate for children ages 4 to 8 who are learning that saying 'I'm sorry' or 'I forgive you' is the key to re-entering the circle of friendship. Parents will appreciate how it models the internal process of cooling off and moving toward reconciliation without being overly preachy.
The book deals with social exclusion and interpersonal conflict. The approach is direct and secular, focusing on the emotional weight of a 'grump' and the relief of resolution. The ending is hopeful and realistic.
A first or second grader who has a 'best friend trio' and is experiencing the common friction of three-way friendships. It is perfect for the child who tends to retreat when their feelings are hurt.
Read this cold. The illustrations provide great context for the vibrant, urban setting. A parent likely just saw their child refuse to join a group activity or heard them say, 'I'm never talking to them again,' after a playdate went south.
A 4-year-old will focus on the sensory details of the party (the food and music). A 7- or 8-year-old will deeply resonate with the social politics of the 'triple-decker' fight and the difficulty of being the first one to soften.
Unlike many friendship books that take place in a vacuum, this one uses the backdrop of a vibrant urban community to show that personal joy is often tied to communal belonging. """
Lola is in a 'triple-decker' fight with her two best friends, Cindy and Nikki. To make matters worse, it is the day of their neighborhood block party. While the streets fill with smells of barbecue and the sounds of steel drums, Lola watches from her stoop, feeling isolated and stubborn. Eventually, the allure of the community celebration and the genuine desire to reconnect lead the girls to apologize and find their rhythm again, both in their friendship and in a game of double dutch.
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