
Reach for this book when your child is processing a major family disruption, such as a divorce or the lingering shadow of grief. Kevin Henkes masterfully captures the quiet, often messy feelings of two boys who meet at a lakeside retreat during a summer of transition. One boy is reeling from his parents' recent separation, while the other is haunted by the accidental death of his brother years prior. It is a story about the complicated nature of 'moving on' and how new friendships can provide a safe harbor during emotional storms. Parents will appreciate the book's gentle pacing and its refusal to offer easy, Hallmark-style fixes. Instead, it validates that healing takes time and that feeling angry or protective of one's old life is a normal part of growing up. Perfect for sensitive middle-grade readers who prefer internal, character-driven stories over high-octane action.
Deals with the emotional aftermath of a parent's infidelity/separation and a sibling's death.
The book deals directly with divorce and the death of a child. The approach is realistic and secular, focusing on the internal psychological landscape of the boys. The resolution is hopeful but grounded: the divorce is not reconciled, and the grief does not vanish, but the characters find a way to coexist with their new realities.
A thoughtful 10-year-old who might be acting out or withdrawing due to family changes. It is especially suited for children who feel like 'the only one' dealing with a broken home or a long-term family tragedy.
Read the scenes where Spencer visits the site of his brother's death to ensure your child is ready for the weight of that specific grief. No major context is needed; the book is very accessible cold. A parent might notice their child being uncharacteristically territorial or 'spying' on others (like Mitch does) as a way to regain control when their own life feels chaotic.
Younger readers (8-9) will focus on the friendship and the 'ghost' of the dead brother. Older readers (11-12) will deeply resonate with Mitch's specific anger toward his father and the nuance of parental fallibility.
Unlike many 'divorce books' that focus on logistics, Henkes focuses on the 'stolen' feeling of loss and the weird, quiet moments of a summer in limbo.
Twelve-year-old Mitch moves to his grandparents' lake house with his mother following his parents' sudden separation. He is angry and hopeful that his father will return. Nearby, ten-year-old Spencer is visiting the lake house his family used to own, a place synonymous with the accidental drowning of his older brother, Matty, years ago. The two boys strike up a tentative, sometimes prickly friendship as they navigate their respective losses.
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