About This Book
Reach for this book when your child is struggling with the heavy weight of 'perfectionism' or feels that their worth is tied to their behavior. It is the perfect antidote to the 'bad kid' narrative that children often internalize after a meltdown or a mistake. The story follows Bigfoot through a series of relatable moments where he feels lonely, makes errors, or experiences big, messy emotions. Through gentle rhyme and soothing illustrations, the book reinforces the core psychological concept of unconditional positive regard. It teaches children aged 0 to 5 that being 'lovable' is an inherent trait, not a reward for good behavior. Parents will find this an invaluable tool for de-escalating shame and rebuilding connection after a difficult day, providing a safe space to affirm that no matter what happens, your child is always enough.
What Parents Should Know
Sensitive Topics
The book addresses shame and self-worth in a secular, metaphorical way using the character of Bigfoot. It handles the 'shame' of making mistakes with a hopeful and deeply reassuring resolution that focuses on attachment security.
