
Reach for this book when your child is eager to grow up or is mimicking your every move to feel closer to you. It is a perfect choice for navigating the small but heavy feelings of accidental loss and the guilt that comes with 'borrowing' without permission. The story follows Ricky, a young boy who desperately wants a mustache just like his father's. After taking one from a school play costume and losing it on the way home, Ricky faces the weight of his mistake and the worry that he has disappointed those he loves. At its heart, this is a story about the tender bond between a father and son within a vibrant Mexican American setting. It provides a gentle way to discuss responsibility and honesty while offering the comforting reassurance that mistakes can be fixed with a little creativity and love. It is ideally suited for children ages 4 to 8 who are beginning to explore their own identity and their place within the family dynamic.
The book deals with mild themes of theft (borrowing without asking) and the resulting shame. The approach is secular and very grounded in reality. The resolution is hopeful and reinforces the security of the parent-child bond.
A child who is currently in a 'mini-me' phase, constantly imitating a parent's grooming or dressing habits, or a student who is particularly sensitive to 'getting in trouble' at school.
This book can be read cold. It may be helpful to discuss the difference between 'borrowing' and 'taking' if the child is on the younger end of the age range. A parent might reach for this after catching their child hiding a small mistake or after a moment where the child expressed frustration about being 'too small' to do something.
Preschoolers will focus on the fun of the disguise and the physical loss of the item. Older elementary students (grades 1-3) will more deeply resonate with the social stakes of losing school property and the desire for adult status.
Unlike many 'father-son' books that focus on activities like fishing or sports, this focuses on physical resemblance and grooming as a form of cultural and familial identity, set against the backdrop of his father's barbershop and their close-knit neighborhood. """
Ricky, a young Mexican American boy, admires his father's thick, 'bushy' mustache and wishes he had one to look just as tough and grown-up. When his class performs a play, Ricky is delighted to wear a costume mustache. He decides to keep it to show his parents, but during the windy walk home, the mustache is lost. Distraught by the loss and the fear of having done something wrong, Ricky is comforted by his father, who uses his own barbering skills and a bit of creativity to make Ricky feel like a 'man' again.
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