
Reach for this book when your teenager is grappling with the complexities of non-traditional family structures or the pain of a high-conflict separation where legal rights don't match emotional bonds. It is an essential resource for children who feel caught in the middle of adult disputes or who are questioning their own identity in the shadow of their parents choices. The story follows Nick as his two mothers separate, exposing the heartbreaking reality that his primary bond is with the mother who has no legal standing. It explores themes of deep depression, the definition of a real parent, and the fight for emotional justice. While the subject matter is heavy, it provides a vital mirror for children in LGBTQ+ families and offers a hopeful resolution where a child's voice is finally heard and respected. It is most appropriate for mature middle schoolers and high schoolers due to themes of infidelity and emotional distress.
Themes of parental infidelity and the breakdown of a long-term partnership.
Depicts a teenager experiencing significant clinical depression and isolation.
High-conflict divorce, infidelity (an affair), emotional neglect, and a period of deep clinical depression where the protagonist becomes non-functional.
A mature teenager (14+) navigating a complex divorce, particularly one where legal custody does not reflect the child's true emotional bonds. It is a vital read for any teenager navigating the complexities of family law, especially in situations where legal parentage doesn't align with emotional bonds.
Parents should be aware of the depiction of the biological mother, Erin, who acts as the antagonist for much of the later half of the book. The scenes detailing Nick's depression and his refusal to leave his room are intense and may require conversation regarding mental health support. A child expressing that they don't feel like their legal parents are their real parents, or a child who has become withdrawn and depressed following a family separation.
Younger teens will focus on the unfairness of the custody situation and the fear of losing a parent. Older teens will better grasp the nuance of the marital breakdown, the implications of the affair, and the systemic legal failures regarding non-biological queer parents.
Unlike many divorce books that focus on split weekends, this novel tackles the high-stakes legal vulnerabilities that existed for non-traditional families before marriage equality was fully realized, highlighting the devastating gap between legal rights and the heart's definition of family. ```
Nick is a teenager being raised by two mothers, Erin and Jo. While Erin is his biological mother, Nick shares a deeper emotional bond with Jo. As his parents' marriage dissolves due to infidelity and growing resentment, Nick is caught in a painful legal and emotional limbo. Because Jo never legally adopted him, Erin uses her biological status to sever Nick's contact with the person he considers his real parent. The story follows Nick's descent into depression and his ultimate fight to have his emotional needs recognized over legal technicalities.
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