
Reach for this book when your child is navigating a major transition, particularly one involving adoption, a new family dynamic, or the complex grief of leaving a past life behind. Ten-year-old Babo lives in a war-torn circus camp, holding onto the hope that her parents will return, until she is adopted by an American couple and renamed Betti. The story beautifully captures the push and pull of loyalty to one's roots versus the scary possibility of a happy future. It is a deeply empathetic look at identity and belonging for children aged 8 to 12. Parents will find it a valuable tool for validating the 'messy' feelings that come with big changes, showing that it is okay to miss where you came from while learning to love where you are now.
The book addresses war, abandonment, and the foster/adoptive experience with a realistic, secular approach. While the trauma is evident, it is handled through the internal monologue of a child, making it accessible. The resolution is hopeful but acknowledges that healing is a long, non-linear process.
An older elementary or middle-school student who feels like an outsider or is struggling with 'imposter syndrome' in a new environment. It is especially resonant for international adoptees or children in blended families.
Read the early chapters describing the 'bomb-out' camp to gauge your child's sensitivity to depictions of poverty and war. Contextualizing that Babo's 'rudeness' in the US is a defense mechanism will help the reader maintain empathy. A parent might see their child pulling away, refusing to participate in family traditions, or expressing a fierce, perhaps illogical, loyalty to a difficult past.
Younger readers will focus on the circus elements and the 'fish out of water' humor. Older readers will grasp the profound identity crisis and the weight of survivor's guilt.
Unlike many adoption stories that focus on the 'rescue,' this book centers entirely on the child's agency and her difficult, often prickly, emotional transition.
Babo is a ten-year-old girl living in a 'leftover' camp in an unnamed war-torn country, where she and other displaced children perform circus acts to survive. She is convinced her birth parents will return for her. When an American couple adopts her, she is thrust into a world of abundance and strange customs in the United States. Renamed Betti, she must navigate the trauma of her past, the guilt of leaving her friends behind, and the challenge of opening her heart to a new mother and father.
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