
Reach for this book when your child feels overlooked during school celebrations or struggles to express affection in conventional ways. It is a perfect choice for children who find the pressure of 'being nice' on holidays overwhelming or who use humor and grumpiness to mask their social anxieties. Through the antics of the famously cantankerous Bad Kitty, children see that it is okay to feel left out and that learning to give is often the first step toward feeling included. The story follows Kitty as she navigates the confusing expectations of Valentine's Day. After realizing she has not received any cards, she attempts to make her own, with hilariously disastrous results. Ultimately, the book highlights the power of quiet friendship and the idea that even the grumpiest characters deserve love. It provides a safe, funny space to discuss social reciprocity and the different ways we can show we care, even if we are not naturally 'sweet.'
Kitty's 'bad' behavior is played for laughs and serves as a catalyst for learning.
The book deals with social isolation and the feeling of being disliked. The approach is secular and highly metaphorical through animal behavior. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on a one-on-one bond rather than sudden popularity.
An elementary student who is perhaps the 'class clown' or the 'difficult' child, who feels they don't fit into the sugary-sweet expectations of school holidays and needs to see their grumpy feelings validated.
Read cold. The humor is slapstick and accessible. Parents should be prepared to discuss why Kitty's 'insult' valentine (You Smell Bad) might not be the best way to make friends, while acknowledging the humor in it. A parent might reach for this after their child comes home from school complaining that 'everyone hates them' or after seeing their child refuse to participate in a group gift-exchange due to social pressure.
Younger children (4-5) will enjoy the physical comedy and Puppy's silliness. Older children (6-8) will resonate with the social politics of the holiday and the irony of Kitty's failed attempts at poetry.
Unlike most Valentine books that are saccharine, this one acknowledges the 'dark side' of the holiday: the jealousy and the feeling of being the only one without a card.
Kitty is in a foul mood because Valentine's Day has arrived and she hasn't received a single card. She learns that to get a valentine, she might have to give one. Her attempts at card-making are characteristically 'bad,' involving insults and messy art. However, when Puppy shows her an unexpected kindness, Kitty's perspective shifts. The book uses Bruel's signature blend of comic-strip panels and expressive illustrations to navigate the holiday.
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