
Reach for this book when your child is struggling with the difference between following the letter of the law and the spirit of the law, especially regarding classroom rewards or social recognition. It is a perfect choice for parents of early elementary students who are highly competitive or who may prioritize winning a prize over the feelings of those around them. This story follows six year old Ava Lin as she navigates a kindness ticket system in her first grade classroom. While Ava's goal of winning a narwhal eraser is relatable, her single-minded focus leads her to treat kindness as a transaction rather than a genuine connection. The story explores themes of honesty, social awareness, and the importance of an authentic apology when we hurt those we love. With its blend of traditional text and graphic novel panels, it is an accessible and humorous way to talk about the messy reality of being a good friend.
The book deals with minor social conflict and peer pressure. The approach is direct and secular, focusing on social-emotional intelligence. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on restorative justice between friends.
A first or second grader who is perhaps a bit 'too' focused on gold stars, behavior charts, or being the best in class, and needs a gentle mirror to see how that drive affects their relationships.
No specific scenes require advance previewing. It can be read cold, though it serves as a great springboard for discussing 'why' we do nice things. A parent might see their child performing a 'good deed' and immediately looking for a reward, or perhaps heard from a teacher that their child is being exclusionary in the name of following rules.
Six and seven year olds will identify with the intense desire for small school prizes. Eight and nine year olds will better grasp the irony of Ava's 'unkind kindness' and the nuances of the graphic-hybrid format.
Unlike many 'character education' books that are overly didactic, Vicky Fang uses humor and a hybrid graphic-novel format to make Ava's bumbling mistakes feel relatable rather than shameful.
Ava Lin is a first grader determined to earn the most kindness tickets in her class to win a narwhal eraser. She becomes so obsessed with the reward that her acts of kindness become performative and selfish, eventually causing her to neglect and upset her best friend. The story follows her realization that true kindness isn't about the prize, but about how we make others feel.
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