
Reach for this book when your child is struggling with the 'stretching' feeling of a long-distance relationship, whether due to divorce, military service, or a parent working in another state. It provides a mirror for the specific, bittersweet experience of a short visit where the joy of being together is often shadowed by the knowledge that a goodbye is coming. This gentle story follows a young boy whose father travels from Delaware to Arizona for a one-week stay. Winthrop captures the physical and emotional landscape of a temporary reunion with remarkable sensitivity. For children ages 5 to 9, the book validates that it is okay to feel both happy and sad at the same time. It moves beyond the logistics of travel to focus on the emotional reality of 'long-distance love,' making it a comforting tool for opening up conversations about missing someone and maintaining a bond across many miles.
The book deals with parental separation and long-distance parenting. The approach is direct but secular and child-centered. The resolution is realistic rather than 'happily ever after.' It doesn't promise the parents will move back together, but it reinforces the permanence of the father-son bond despite the distance.
An elementary schooler who experiences 're-entry' or 'departure' anxiety during visitation transitions. It is perfect for the child who feels lonely even when their parent is right there because they are already mourning the goodbye.
Read this ahead of time to prepare for the 'goodbye' scene. It is quite poignant and may bring up big feelings in the moment. It is best read together when there is time for a long hug afterward. Parents may find the child's silent observation of the ticking clock or the father's suitcase to be a heart-wrenching reminder of the emotional toll that distance takes on young children.
Younger children (5-6) will focus on the fun things the duo does together, like looking at birds. Older children (7-9) will more deeply resonate with the boy's internal struggle to keep his 'sad feelings' from ruining the 'happy time.'
Unlike many divorce books that focus on the conflict between parents, this one focuses almost exclusively on the geography of love. It uses the vast physical distance between Arizona and Delaware as a powerful metaphor for the emotional space the child must bridge.
The story follows a second-grade boy living in Arizona whose father lives across the country in Delaware. The narrative covers the arrival, the week spent together exploring the desert landscape, and the inevitable departure. It focuses on the internal monologue of the child as he navigates the high-stakes emotions of a limited-time visit.
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