
Reach for this book when your child is acting out or withdrawing following the arrival of a new sibling. While many books focus on the excitement of a new baby, this story creates a safe space for the messy, uncomfortable feelings of resentment and displacement that often surface once the novelty wears off. Through the relatable character of Angelina, the story validates that it is okay to feel lonely or even angry when a parent's attention is divided. It is an ideal tool for parents of preschoolers and young elementary students who need reassurance that their place in the family remains secure. By acknowledging Angelina's 'naughty' behavior as a symptom of her sadness, the book models a compassionate parental response that helps children transition from feeling replaced to feeling like a valued big sister.
The book handles the emotional transition of a new sibling in a secular, realistic way through animal metaphors. It addresses feelings of rejection and the desire for a sibling to 'disappear' with honesty and hope.
A child aged 4 to 6 who was previously an only child and is now struggling with 'middle child' or 'big sibling' syndrome, particularly one who uses attention-seeking behaviors to express their needs.
Parents should be prepared to discuss Angelina's 'naughty' behavior. It is helpful to read this cold so the child can react naturally to Angelina's frustration without feeling lectured. A parent might reach for this after their older child has had a temper tantrum or intentionally broken something because the parent was busy with the baby.
Three-year-olds will relate to the visual cues of the baby taking up space. Seven-year-olds will better grasp the nuance of Angelina's internal conflict and the change in her status within the family.
Unlike many 'new baby' books that are purely celebratory, Holabird allows Angelina to be genuinely unlikeable for a few pages, which perfectly mirrors the actual behavior of a displaced child, making the eventual resolution feel earned rather than forced.
Angelina is initially thrilled about her new sister, Polly, but the reality of a crying baby and exhausted parents soon sets in. Feeling ignored, Angelina acts out by being disruptive and messy. When her parents realize she is struggling, they make a concerted effort to include her and celebrate her role as a big sister, leading to a heartwarming reconciliation.
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