Altogether, One at a Time

Reach for this book when your child begins to notice the grey areas in people and situations, or when they are struggling with the social pressure to be liked at the expense of being kind. This collection of four short stories explores the quiet, often uncomfortable moments of growing up: from the social politics of a birthday party to the complex feelings of a child at a specialized weight-loss camp. Each story serves as a mirror for the internal conflicts children face as they develop a moral compass independent of their peers. E.L. Konigsburg masterfully captures the nuance of self-image, empathy, and the realization that everyone, including adults, is a mix of different qualities. While published in the 1970s and reprinted later, the emotional resonance regarding exclusion and identity remains sharp and relevant for modern middle-grade readers. It is an excellent choice for starting deep conversations about why we make the choices we do when no one is watching.