
Reach for this book when your child is struggling to understand why a friend is upset or when they are feeling overwhelmed by a peer's big emotions. It is a perfect tool for teaching children that someone's outward behavior, like crying or shouting, often has a hidden cause that requires patience and investigation to uncover. This gentle story follows Albert the bear as he wakes from hibernation and discovers his favorite tree is 'crying.' Albert tries everything he knows to cheer it up, from telling jokes to offering gifts, only to realize the sound isn't coming from the tree at all. It is a masterclass in empathy and perspective-taking for children aged 3 to 7, using humor and soft illustrations to normalize the process of checking in on others while managing one's own anxiety about a friend's distress.
The book deals with social anxiety and the fear of the unknown. The approach is entirely metaphorical and secular. The resolution is hopeful and focuses on communication.
A preschooler or kindergartner who is highly sensitive to the moods of others. It is especially good for the 'fixer' child who feels responsible for everyone's happiness and needs to learn that sometimes we just need to listen and understand the 'why' behind the tears.
The book can be read cold. Parents should be prepared to perform the 'WAAA' sounds to emphasize the tree's supposed distress versus the small owl's actual fear. A parent might choose this after seeing their child become distressed or pull away when another child on the playground starts crying or acting out.
Younger children (3-4) will focus on the humor of a bear trying to hug a tree and the 'mystery' of the sound. Older children (5-7) will better grasp the irony and the social lesson regarding how our own actions can sometimes unintentionally cause the distress we see in others.
Unlike many empathy books that focus on 'being nice,' this one focuses on the cognitive side of empathy: perspective-taking. It shows that our first assumption about why someone is upset might be completely wrong.
Albert the bear wakes from hibernation and visits his favorite peaceful tree. To his dismay, the tree appears to be wailing loudly. Albert attempts several empathetic gestures to soothe the tree, including performing a dance, bringing it a snack, and climbing it to offer a hug. Eventually, Albert discovers that the tree isn't crying; a small owl is nestled in the branches, crying because it is frightened by the large bear. The two eventually find common ground and friendship.
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