
Reach for this book when your middle schooler is grappling with the feeling of being different, particularly due to a health struggle or learning challenge. While many books focus on the crisis of illness, this story explores the complicated and often humorous reality of what happens after the danger has passed but the scars remain. It follows Jeffrey Alper, a cancer survivor navigating eighth grade with the help of his best friend Tad, who is also a survivor. Through a mix of sharp wit and raw honesty, Jordan Sonnenblick captures the nuances of friendship, academic pressure, and the search for identity. This is an excellent choice for building empathy and resilience, as it validates the frustration of having a body or brain that functions differently than others. It is highly appropriate for the 10 to 14 age range, providing a realistic yet hopeful look at finding one's strength in the wake of adversity.
Some realistic middle-school slang and mild insults.
Jeffrey develops a crush on Lindsey; there are some light romantic feelings and a first kiss.
Themes of chronic illness, fear of recurrence, and academic failure are present throughout.
The book deals directly with the physical and cognitive aftereffects of cancer, as well as the death of a major character. The approach is secular and unflinchingly realistic. The resolution is bittersweet but ultimately hopeful, emphasizing the importance of living fully even when the outcome is uncertain.
A 12-year-old boy who uses humor as a defense mechanism or any student who feels 'left behind' by academic standards due to circumstances beyond their control. It is perfect for a child who wants a story that is funny but doesn't shy away from the hard stuff.
Parents should be aware that a significant character dies toward the end of the book. It is handled with grace but is emotionally intense. Reading the final few chapters beforehand is recommended to prepare for the inevitable conversation about grief. A parent might see their child struggling with 'hidden' disabilities or the frustration of not being able to keep up with peers despite their best efforts. The trigger is the moment a child asks, 'Why is this so much harder for me than everyone else?'
Younger readers (10-11) will focus on the school drama and the 'deal' between the friends. Older readers (13-14) will better appreciate the nuances of the brotherly relationship and the existential weight of living as a survivor.
Unlike many 'sick lit' books, this focuses on the long-term cognitive and social fallout of illness rather than the treatment itself, using humor to make a difficult subject highly accessible.
Jeffrey Alper is a childhood leukemia survivor in the eighth grade. While he is technically in remission, he deals with significant late effects including a limp and severe learning disabilities in math caused by his treatment. Along with his best friend Tad (another survivor) and a new girl named Lindsey, Jeffrey navigates the social hierarchy of middle school, a looming state graduation requirement exam, and his changing relationship with his older brother, Stephen, who is away in Africa.
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