
Reach for this book when your teenager is struggling with the weight of a hidden struggle, whether that is a mental health diagnosis, a deep-seated secret, or the heavy burden of unprocessed grief. It is a vital resource for parents of teens who feel they must perform 'normalcy' to be loved, offering a roadmap for how to stop hiding and start healing through honesty. The story follows sixteen-year-old Mel as she manages the volatility of bipolar disorder while keeping her condition a secret from new friends and a potential boyfriend. It explores themes of self-stigma, the complexity of grief following the death of a sibling, and the courage required to be vulnerable. Parents will find this a powerful tool for validating their child's internal pressures and opening a dialogue about the importance of a support system.
Sweet teenage romance including kissing and emotional intimacy.
Deals with the death of a sibling and the heavy impact of bipolar disorder.
The book deals directly with mental illness, medication management, and the aftermath of a sibling's death. The approach is realistic and secular. The resolution is not a 'cure' but a hopeful step toward stability and community support. It avoids romanticizing the illness.
A high schooler who feels isolated by their own mental health journey or who is prone to 'masking' their true feelings to fit in. It is perfect for the reader who appreciated the emotional honesty of Jennifer Niven or John Green.
Parents should be aware of a scene involving a manic episode that leads to risky behavior. It is helpful to read this along with the teen to discuss the difference between clinical symptoms and personality. A parent might see their child withdrawing from friends or becoming obsessed with appearing 'fine' while clearly struggling internally, or perhaps hearing their child express fear that they are 'too much' for others to handle.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the romance and the social anxiety of high school. Older teens (17-18) will better grasp the nuances of the medical management and the long-term implications of Mel's grief.
Unlike many YA books that focus only on the crisis, this book provides a detailed look at the daily maintenance and 'work' of living with a chronic mental health condition.
Mel Hannigan is living with Bipolar II disorder. She carefully categorizes her friends into 'tiers' based on how much of her reality she shares with them. When she begins a relationship with David and finds her past with a former best friend catching up to her, her carefully constructed walls begin to fail. The narrative tracks her daily management of her condition, her sessions with her psychiatrist, and her lingering grief over the death of her older brother, Nolan, whose own struggle with mental health ended in tragedy.
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